Betrayed at 70 ( new member #87420) posted at 1:35 AM on Friday, July 10th, 2026
I want to thank all of you for your responses. It really helped me to get your viewpoints and kind support. Bluerthanblue, we divorced in September after I played the pick me dance for six months I think this is what really destroyed me the way he treated me in those six months. He moved out with his friend, but I’m sure he saw her every chance he could, and then once her divorce was final and her ex-husband moved out, he moved right in! He wanted to see if it would work out with her if you can believe that. I let this happen because I truly did not want to be divorced. I wanted to work on our marriage. Due to my age. He decided she live more his lifestyle and he wanted to be with her. He said he didn’t have (those feelings) for me. I Moved out bought a condo with my settlement. Last text was in November. Haven’t heard from him since he told me he would help me out anyway he could, but I never heard from him again. And I have not tried to find out anything about him. I think it’s best that way it’s too painful for me. I mean I’d like to know what’s going on and hoping that their relationship has failed already but bottom line is he’s not with me he hasn’t contacted me.
